Heart 2 Heart. Please Advice.

Hello Aunty chi

Kindly post my issue as I'm in a state of confusion and need advice please keep me anonymous.



I have been dating a guy for the past 6months. But it's been more like not being in a relationship cause he has a business partner which they are always together and do things together more than me his girlfriend.


I have asked him several times concerning this business partner of his, if he has any affair with her that he should tell me and he keeps swearing he has nothing to do with her that they are just partners and nothing else. mind you they both own the company together and I have asked his staff if they are both dating and the answer he gave was more like a yes. He plays golf and same with the lady too so they have an instagram page where they post all their activities there, each time I stumble to the page I always see the both of them in every picture together.


And there is another thing he does which is he lies a lot and promises things which he those not keep to, did I mention that he has never invited me to come watch him while he plays golf. and since we have been dating we hardly do things together as couples we hardly see at day time except in the night like around 11pm in the night and I go first thing in the morning. I have never stayed like 2days in his house.


I have always asked him that if its for the fun sake that we are in this relationship he should tell me so I don't get myself hurt and he always claims he loves me so much that if its for the fun his not a kid he would let me know.


My problem now is that I love this guy so much but I don't think what I think is a relationship between we both is more of like having fun together not a proper relationship. AM JUST SO CONFUSED ABOUT EVERYTHING.


My Question Now Is:


1, should I tell him how I feel about everything or just quit the relationship?


2, am I just getting myself worked up over everything?


My past relationships was not a good one at all and I don't want to make same mistakes again in this one. did I mention that he does not even know where I live he only knows where I work cause that was were we met. We recently travelled to where he played golf last weekend and I know the reason why he took me there was because his partner was not playing .

I did not even go to where he was playing I was in the hotel room. we got back from the travel and I did not eat all through till we got to Lagos thinking he was going to say we go to his house and his cook or I prepare food to eat then I rest till later in the evening I would go home....... to my surprise he stopped me half way his house and requested for uber to take me home I was so pissed.


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